Welkom terug, Happy 2012 en al daai dinge…

Goeiemore, goeiemiddag, goeienaand, Voorspoedige nuwejaar, gelukkige vaaltyn, enjoy die Paasnaweek, hoop nie jy kry te koud in die winter nie, Jippee die Lente is hier, geniet jou vakansie, en Merry Christmas… Als op een dag, net vir incase ek nie kans kry later nie… die lewe is besig om teen 100myl per uur te beweeg, en ek hol nog teen 5 miles a fort nite! As iemand weet waar die “pause” knoppie is, stuur GPS koordinate seblief, ek gaan nie hierdie jaar maak teen hierdie spoed nie!

Maar okay, genoeg gekla. Gaan dit goed? Hoe was jou vakansie?

Sien, die saak staan so:

Ekke wil bittergraag hierdie graad waarmee ek nou al ad infinitum besig is, klaarkry, maar heelaas het die Finansiële Bestuur-dosent dit nie reggekry om genoeg wyse woorde in my eksamenantwoordstel bymekaar te skraap om my poging suksesvol te maak nie… Okay, oraait, dan doen ons maar ‘n ander module ne.Genadiglik vir my (ek wonder oor daai een, om eerlik te wes!) besluit Unisa toe darem dat aangesien dit die laaste ou moduletjie is, en aangesien hulle nou al hoe lank geldjies uit my maak, en aangesien hulle die plekkie wat ek opneem vir ‘n presently overadvantaged student nodig het, hulle my nog ‘n kansie sal gee, MITS ekke ‘n hengse groot werkopdrag teen volgende vrydag kan inhandig en actually deurkom… hou duime vas…

Geniet jou dag, tot ons weer gesels!

 

Geseënde Kersfees!

In konferensie met myself besluit dis tyd vir ‘n blogvakansie (Jaaa, okay, wat is nou eintlik die verskil, since ek in elk geval so lanklaas geblog het ne, Sal probeer opmaak in 2012, promise)

Hoop julle het ‘n heerlike vakansie, en ‘n Geseënde Kersfees vir julle almal!

Haloda!

Gaan dit goed?

Die lewe move ‘n bietjie vinniger as wat ek kan byhou op die oomblik, ek’s nogal bly my naam is nie Jannie nie, want dan was dit properlies “Swem Jannie, Swem!” maar ek kla nie, nognie.

Hoop jy het ‘n lekker maandag!
Tot later!

19 Steve Jobs Quotes and Life Lessons to Live By

1. “Do you want to spend the rest of your life selling sugared water or do you want a chance to change the world?”

Embody your why. Have a reason for being. If you can communicate a compelling enough reason, you can influence anyone. How else do you poach a CEO from Pepsi to run your business when you aren’t even 30? Live and breathe it. And as Simon Sinek says, always, always Start with Why.

2. “Focus and simplicity…once you get there, you can move mountains.”
Keep it simple. Stay focused. Two of the most valuable tools in business. Also some of the most underused. It wasn’t until I dedicated my focus solely to my two passions: helping people do work they love and helping people own good businesses through the stock market, and dropped all the other side projects, did the pieces start to fall together. That’s when the community here at Live Your Legend began to form. That’s when the impact started to be clear.

3. “You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards.”

Believe things will work out. How was I ever to know that the girl who broke my heart in university would lead to my soulmate? How was I to know that the ‘dream job’ I was rejected from out of college would lead me to a year of entrepreneurship and adventure in Spain? How was I to know that taking a miserable job back in the states would be just the push I needed to vow to never do something I wasn’t passionate about again? Everything works out. I mean everything. As long as you believe it will. When you do, you will find the silver lining. That will take you to the next level.

4. “The only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle.”

Do what you love. Need I say more? From the first day my dad gave me a copy of What Color is Your Parachute to the birth of Live Your Legend and the creation of How to Live Off Your Passion. All the actions, all the decisions to move on to greener pastures in the past decade come back to the belief I have, thanks to Steve, that doing what you love is not something for the lucky few. It’s for the ones willing to work their ass off. The ones who want it badly enough. Those who refuse to settle. Just like all you…

5. “Death is very likely the single best invention of life.”

Don’t wait. The second you realize how fragile and short life is, is the second you get your ass up and start doing what matters. There will never be a good time to do something. There is always a reason to put it off. The timing is never perfect. Do it anyway. Later turns to never too quickly.

6. “And no, we don’t know where it will lead. We just know there’s something much bigger than any of us here.”

Create something bigger than yourself. Don’t do it for you. Do it for them. Do it for the people you will help. Do it for the impact you could have on the world. Live Your Legend has become what it is because it is bigger than I could ever hope to be on my own. It is what it is, because of all of you. The path to doing great things is uncertain. It always will be. Walk it anyway and do something epic.

7. “Be a yardstick of quality. Some people aren’t used to an environment where excellence is expected.”

Don’t cut corners. This goes as much for business and products as it does for friends and loved ones. Do you know the easiest way to stand out? Simply take pride in what you do. Put your heart into it. Sadly many people don’t. Excellence will always be the biggest differentiator of all. Know your excellence and own it.

8. “It comes from saying no to 1,000 things to make sure we don’t get on the wrong track or try to do too much.”

Focus. Thirty minutes in the sun is refreshing. Thirty seconds under a magnifying glass will light you on fire. Don’t under estimate the power of focus. With it literally anything is possible. People sometimes ask how I am able to run the two businesses that I am. They don’t understand how I have the time. What they don’t realize is that I don’t piss away time on things that are meaningless to me. It becomes a lot easier to do that when what you’re doing actually matters to you.

9. “Innovation distinguishes between a leader and a follower.”

Be different. It’s easy to copy someone. And in many cases modeling makes the most sense. But never give up who you are. Adopt a successful framework but find your own way to be different. Or turn everything on its head. Our investment partnership only charges investors fees if we make them money. We don’t do our job, we don’t get paid. Sounds obvious until you realize less than 1% of funds operate that way. Be different. You’ll be noticed.

10. “Our goal is to make the best devices in the world, not to be the biggest.”

Know what you want (and what you don’t care about). Most people want it all. The problem is when you try to accomplish that, especially at the same time, you get nowhere. Have the type of pride in what you do to know you can’t be everything to everyone, and instead commit to being something meaningful to someone.

There are a million ideas that came through my mind when launching this site. In the end I left all but a couple for the others out there to keep doing. I had my own idea. Thank you for supporting it. You don’t need as much money as you think. You don’t need as many followers as you think. You don’t need as many customers as you think. Focus on what matters to you. The results will be obvious.

11. “Things don’t have to change the world to be important.”

Make your own impact. I don’t care how big or small it is. All that matters is you do something unique to you that helps people in a way you care about. Don’t be intimidated by the big and famous successful folks. Be inspired by them. If you believe it’s important. Then it’s important. Do that enough and the world will agree.

12. “We don’t get a chance to do that many things, and everyone should be really excellent. Because this is our life.”

Be good at something. Every one of us is excellent at something. The sad thing is that most spend the majority of their life doing something else. Know what you’re awesome at. Know what you can help people with more than anything. It’s a waste to you and a waste to the world to do anything less. It’s never too late. You can’t put your dent in the world if you’re sitting in a cube doing work you’re not even good at.

13. “We hire people who want to make the best things in the world.”

Be attractive. Have pride. Like Warren Buffett says – the best defense against a nasty economy is to be really good at something. Once you figure out what you want and how you want to change the world, stop at nothing until you find a company who believes the same. It will be love at first sight. Or find a partner or start a business that embodies it.

14. “We’re just enthusiastic about what we do.”

Excitement trumps everything. If you can’t get excited about what you’re doing, you have to leave. That’s why I fired myself from corporate hell only seven months into my first official job. Excitement is contagious. But so is depression. With enough enthusiasm, anything is possible.

15. “Half of what separates the successful entrepreneurs from the non-successful ones is pure perseverance.”

Don’t give up. That’s the only way to ensure you never fail. If you can keep charging forward, no matter how fast or slow, over time your competitors will find ways to defeat themselves. It would be embarrassing to divulge to you the number of times a fleeting thought of giving up has flashed in my mind. A few years ago it used to stick around for minutes and even days. But I loved what I did. And I knew it mattered. So I kept going. And I keep going. Love motivates like nothing else.
And a few others:

16. “I’m as proud of what we don’t do as I am of what we do.”

17. “I’m the only person I know that’s lost a quarter of a billion dollars in one year. It’s very character-building.”

18. “Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.”

What’s Your Legacy?

30 years ago Steve Jobs said he wanted to put a ‘dent’ in the universe…

Then he got fired from a company he created by a man he hired.

What’d he do?

He kept going.

He built another company. Two in fact.

One gave us Toy Story.

The other got him back to Apple.

Then he changed the world.

He had a Reason Why that the world could get behind. He stood for challenging the status quo, expressing creativity, empowering the individual.

He stood for not settling. For doing work you love and stopping at nothing to achieve it.

Not even the threat of death.

He was determined to make a difference.

Even after he was given 6 months to live. He changed the world for another 6 years.

Steve always planned to leave a legacy.

He grew up dead set on changing the world. He wasn’t sure how he’d do it, but he was pretty sure he would.

A lot of people told him he was crazy.

He did it any way.

It’s sad to see such a Living Legend pass on but the beauty is not just what he created but also in what he left with us now that he’s gone.

It begs the question.

What legacy are you leaving?

Are you putting the dent in the world you know you can be?

It doesn’t have to some grand world-changing idea. It just has to matter to you.

If not then why not? How can I help?

Is what’s holding you back really that powerful?

If you haven’t started, now’s the time to begin planning your legacy. And Living Your Legend.

Don’t waste your time living someone else’s dream.

With the loss of Steve, we need you now more than ever.

So… what legacy will you leave?

“For the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: “If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?” And whenever the answer has been “No” for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.” – Steve Jobs

Geleen by Scott Dinsmoore, hier

Gelukkige Sekretaressedag!

Vandag sou ek nou baie graag vir myself hierdie:

in hierdie paar arms wou sit:

maar ek’s nie vandag fluent in fotoshop nie, en ek het ooknie die regte software hier nie, so hierdie moet maar doen.

Vir al julle dames, sekretaresses of te not, geniet die dag!

Tot later…

(okay, okay, ek weet… oor 2 dae begin die wêreld beker in NZ… ek sal ophou om oor Dannyboy te drool teen dan, Promise ;) !

Onthougoed

Snaaks hoe sommige goed vir jare in ‘n mens se kop bly saamry, maak nie juis saak waar jou pad jou vat of wat in die lewe gebeur nie, op een of ander manier bly stukkies onthou by jou… of so werk dit met my, in elk geval.
Hierdie gedig het die mynkaptein van die myn waar ek jarre gelede gewerk het eendag vir my gestuur, en op een of ander manier het dele hiervan nog altyd saamgeloop.
Hoop daar staan iets hier wat vir iemand iets beteken, dit doen vir my.

Ithaca ~Constantine P. Cavafy (1911)

When you set out on your journey to Ithaca,
pray that the road is long,
full of adventure, full of knowledge.
The Lestrygonians and the Cyclops,
the angry Poseidon — do not fear them:
You will never find such as these on your path,
if your thoughts remain lofty, if a fine
emotion touches your spirit and your body.
The Lestrygonians and the Cyclops,
the fierce Poseidon you will never encounter,
if you do not carry them within your soul,
if your soul does not set them up before you.

Pray that the road is long.
That the summer mornings are many, when,
with such pleasure, with such joy
you will enter ports seen for the first time;
stop at Phoenician markets,
and purchase fine merchandise,
mother-of-pearl and coral, amber and ebony,
and sensual perfumes of all kinds,
as many sensual perfumes as you can;
visit many Egyptian cities,
to learn and learn from scholars.

Always keep Ithaca in your mind.
To arrive there is your ultimate goal.
But do not hurry the voyage at all.
It is better to let it last for many years;
and to anchor at the island when you are old,
rich with all you have gained on the way,
not expecting that Ithaca will offer you riches.

Ithaca has given you the beautiful voyage.
Without her you would have never set out on the road.
She has nothing more to give you.

And if you find her poor, Ithaca has not deceived you.
Wise as you have become, with so much experience,
you must already have understood what Ithacas mean.

Constantine P. Cavafy (1911)

10 Steps for Making a Major Life Change – By Steve Davis

As human beings, we’re creatures of habit. No wonder making a major life change is so hard! But it can be done. Follow these steps to get your change in motion, one easy step at a time:

1. Identify the price of maintaining the status quo.
Not making the change you know you need to make is costing you. Do some soul searching; consult with trusted allies, or journal to yourself to uncover the payoffs you’re receiving, and the prices you’re paying for maintaining the status quo. When you get that the price of not making the change is greater than the payoff, you’ll be more committed to moving forward.

2. Create a reserve of everything.
We don’t always have to make a difficult change from where we are now. If we have issues with money, time, space, emotional support, skills, etc., make a plan now to get more than you need in these areas, creating a stronger foundation from which to launch in your new direction. Keep in mind that it’s better to be over prepared and arrive at your destination than to fail because you were just a hair short of having what you needed to get there.

3. Forgive self-judgments.
Guilt is rampant in our culture. So is the vendetta against selfishness. Suffering is supported and nurtured by friends, family, religions, etc. So it’s not surprising that many of us, deep down, don’t feel we deserve to have what we want. For example, maybe you feel you’re not good enough or deserving of the life you really want. Or maybe you feel that the change you’re about to make will hurt someone close to you. Or you may feel that you’re not smart enough, resourceful enough, bold enough, or just plain “enough” to make this change. Acknowledge these judgments then forgive yourself for holding these false perceptions about who you really are. Because the truth is, they are only ideas, many of which are irrational, and you will create yourself each moment based on the new idea you hold about who you are.

4. Stop complaining.
Are you complaining about being in the situation you’re in? Are you blaming others? Or have you accepted full responsibility for your situation and just beat yourself up for not making the change? If any of the above are true, you are playing the victim and you’re forfeiting your power to make the change you say you want. Even if you’re blaming yourself for not being happy or for not having the courage to make the change, then part of you is beating up on another part of yourself, hence there’s a victim in there somewhere. To the degree you play the role of victim, you lose power you could be using to move forward. So get behind yourself completely and own your full power to create the life you desire, no matter what.

5. Give up analysis that breeds paralysis.
We are so conditioned to figure things out before we leap, that sometimes we become paralyzed to take the actions our bodies are directed to take from the beginning. This is particularly true if you’re an engineer, scientist, or other type of technical person who experiences the world more through analysis than through feeling. If you’re stuck in a thinking pattern rehashing the same ideas over and over, trying to figure out what will happen if, then you’re stuck in a mind-loop. It’s time to quit thinking and start doing. Feel in your body what it wants to do, then just do it! The information you’re seeking may only be available after you take action anyway. Wisdom often comes from experience, not from analysis.

6. Develop a compelling vision.
Leaving a longstanding relationship or a long time career can be very frightening. This is because if what we have is all we see, then to give it up means we’ll have nothing left. This is a terrible illusion. New opportunities, relationships, resources, connections, and ideas always rush in to fill space in our lives. But first, you have to make the space for something new, and second, create a clear vision of what your life will look like once your change is complete. The vision of your new future eliminates the fear of the unknown–which can keep you stuck for a long time! Your vision will form the matrix on which you will create your new life and give you the inspiration and courage you need to move on.

7. Risk failure.
Does your fear of failing keep you stuck? If so, define what failure looks like to you. Imagine the worst possible thing happening. Can you live with that? Can you make course corrections before it happens or after it happens? The answer is almost always “yes.” So, please, do yourself a favor, remove the word “failure” from your vocabulary. Realize that each action simply yields a result–one you want or one you don’t want. Use this as feedback from the universe and take the next logical step. From this perspective, mistakes are just indications of a course correction and not to be taken personally. Pilots are checking their compass all the time and making course corrections based on this feedback. They’d never get anywhere if they took every off-course reading as a personal failure. Give up the concept of failure and take flight!

8. Recruit your inner warrior.
Within each of us there is an instinctual aspect built for bold, decisive action. It looks out, not only for our survival, but also for our soul’s mission. It sends messages in the form of feelings in your body. They may come as “gut” feelings, or just a sense of “knowing” that has no rational foundation. If you’re facing a difficult change, and have “contemplated” yourself into a corner, it may be time to let your inner warrior take over for a while. Just act “as if” you “know” what to do, then do it without thinking about it until after it’s done.

9. Get support to help you through the change.
Big life changes can be overwhelming. There’s no shame in asking for help from friends, relatives, or from a coach. In fact, enough of the right kind of support can make a seemingly difficult change, relatively easy. For me, being a former lone-ranger, asking for and accepting help from others was difficult at first, but really nice once I got used to it. Now I wouldn’t think of starting a major project or making a big change without relying on my support system of close and loving friends, and my coach. Do whatever is necessary to make change easy on yourself. You’re worth it!

10. Don’t go to your deathbed wondering what would have happened if…
It’s easy for us to forget how short our lives really are. Many of us live as if we’ll never die. We waste away our hours and days working jobs we hate, living just for the weekends, or “putting in time” until retirement, living most of our lives like zombies. We may live in a relationship that is draining and disempowering thinking it might magically get better somehow, someday. We deny our feelings or make excuses for frittering our lives away. This is insane. Stop it now! Our lives are so precious and so short. I challenge you to project yourself forward to your death. It’s real and it’s coming for you! See yourself on your deathbed and ask yourself if the life you’re living now is all you dreamt it to be. Write your own obituary today. How close are you to living your passion?

Let this vision be a motivator to get off your butt and follow your dreams!

Onthougoed van lank gelede…

I often sit down to a letter,

not because I intend writing anything of importance to you,

but simply to touch a piece of paper that you will be holding in your hands…

Kannie onthou waar ek die gelees het nie, dit was baie baie lank gelede, maar somehow stick die reëltjie jare al in my kop…

Ten steps to a better you (geleen by whitedovebooks)

1. Exercise regularly, ideally every day. Get yourself fit and stay in shape. You might be amazed at how this will contribute to you achieving your goals as well as just helping you to feel better about yourself. If you smoke, quit! Just give up. You know it is not good for your health so it’s about time you did something about it.

2. You must have a vision or a dream if you like. ‘Without a vision’, as the Bible puts it, ‘the people perish’. Take the time to figure out what you really want from life. Not the things you think might be quite nice to have, but find out what is deep within your heart for you to achieve with your life and let it become your guide. If you do this well, you can accomplish it within one day and it can change your life completely.

3. Always be prepared to adopt a new approach. Once you have your vision, commit to making it reality. By changing your approach you are not changing the goal. Notice what works and what doesn’t, start doing more of what works and less of what doesn’t and you can watch your productivity skyrocket.

4. Start to see every demand on your time in terms of your vision. Any task you say ‘yes’ to must have a good reason and there are only two good reasons: a) the task takes you closer to achieving your dreams or b) it just has to be done (an example might be a dripping tap). Don’t say yes to any other type of task and within 30 days, you can develop a new habit that will start you moving in the direction of success.

5. De-clutter your home, office and life. You don’t need stuff. We all have too much stuff. Get rid of the stuff you don’t use. All that indispensable rubbish that’s laying about in the garage for example. Car boot it, run a garage sale, give it away or whatever – just get rid of it. Your brain will thank you for it and you will feel much more organised.

6. Brainstorm ideas regularly with yourself or with others. Write your vision down and start asking yourself what you need to do to move yourself closer. List all ideas and afterward select the best ones for action. Prioritise them and get on with the tasks you have set for yourself. Do this as regularly as you need. When you are out of tasks to accomplish, it’s time for another brainstorming session.

7. In all you dealings with other people, commit yourself to really listening to what they have to say. I know you already think you can do this, but there is a big difference between ‘hearing’ and ‘listening’ and we can all improve in this department. Learn to detach yourself from your own opinions. Try to see the perspectives of other people even if you don’t agree, just try to understand them and your relationships will begin to improve significantly.

8. Start performing Random Acts of Kindness. Ask yourself what you can do to help other people and just do it. When you get into this way of thinking, opportunities will open themselves up for you to help. Be kind to everyone in your office, in your private life, complete strangers, absolutely everyone especially those you don’t like or get on with.

9. If you are negotiating anything with anyone, try to find a solution that both parties like and not one that both parties will reluctantly accept. Creatively brainstorm solutions with all parties involved until you find the way. If you can master this approach, you will become an extremely valuable person and a key influencer within any group or team.

10. Stay committed to the process of continual improvement. Work on yourself until you become a person that the market truly values and, by this process, you will eventually be able to write your own pay cheque.

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